Monday, March 30, 2015

Final Project--Erasing gender one stereotype at a time


The stereotypes for gender classification have been created over decades and centuries, by the media, industrialization, politics and several other factors. Gender has become very complex to break down all at once, but by looking at one specific stereotype, it begins to question the idea of gender and if it even exists. There have recently been several campaigns challenging different gender stereotypes (i.e. “Run Like a Girl” and the BuzzFeed video “If Women’s Roles in Ads were Played by Men”) but there are several more stereotypes that have not even been touched upon.
The "Run Like a Girl" campaign challenging
gender stereotypes of a girl's strength.

As I was talking to one of my friend’s recently, she mentioned how girls are more emotional. I argued that it is only assumed to be that way, since boys are told to hide their emotions and man up. This short conversation had caused me to start thinking of this idea of showing or bottling up your emotions, and how the choice depends on a person’s gender. I started doing research on the taboo idea of boys crying publicly and the results were enlightening. Going back to Ancient Greece up until the 19th century, it was admired and respected for a man to cry. It was seen as a way of showing honesty, integrity and strength. It made people human. So by denying men the right to cry, it is in a way denying their right to be human and instead causing them to be these macho, patriarchal-dominant figures.

One of the only ad campaigns for PMS, and 
it is blaming the women for their emotions.

And when you look at the opposite side of the spectrum--the stereotype of the other sex--women are seen as being overly emotional because they PMS and are therefore weaker. But what our society fails to realize is that men’s hormones change and fluctuate as well, which means it can also toy with their emotions. By only allowing women to be overly emotional with sadness or fret, it is showing these as weaker characteristics--that is, if we are following the structure that society sets of women being lesser than men. It denies both men and women to fully show their humanistic characteristics, and so it can be argued that gender limits people from pure humanity.

Through this project I want to exploit this gender stereotype of emotion, causing men to question what “man up” really means and for women to show their that biological characteristics should not make them any less of a person. By doing so, I hope to challenge people’s ideas on gender and question if gender even exists. I will be making a campaign PSA similar to the ones I had mentioned before. I want to interview both men and women from various ages (~12-60s) to show how this gender stereotype has been implanted in everyone’s brains in our society without even realizing it. I will have these be sit-down interviews, set up similar to the Dove campaigns, so that it will be a more casual conversation and viewers can feel part of the video. I will be asking each person a few questions, challenging their presumptions on gender. I might have an introductory statement at the beginning of the video, giving viewers a background on how many people were interviewed and why. At the end I also want to use a quote from Judith Butler’s piece Gender Trouble, and I want to post the question “We all have emotions, why does gender make us limit our humanity?” or something to that extent so viewers question gender in their lives.

This project is for anyone who passively takes in the media around them (so basically all of our U.S. society) and to enlighten them on the reality of their identity. I want people to question gender and hopefully realize that gender might not even exist. By doing so, it can help bring us a step closer to equality for men and women. I will be posting the project on my blog/portfolio to show with my other work relating to videography and my mission as a journalist to report in issues pertaining to women’s rights. When the semester is over, I will also use the feedback I get from class to improve upon the project and potentially work with nonprofits or colleges to sponsor the video and continue spreading ideas of equality.

Final Project

Men are often afraid to express their feelings and emotions for the fact of not being ‘manly’ enough. “There is only one emotion that patriarchy values when expressed by men; that emotion is anger. Real men get mad” as Bell Hooks states in her book The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love. Men should not hide their true emotions behind anger or other men, for being afraid of being labeled as not straight or not man enough.
The final project is based on an article of the Huffington Post titled, “11 ‘Girly’ Things Men Wish They Could Do Without Judgment”. I will be making a video in which each scene will be based on one of the 11 topics talked about in the article. I am making this because I could relate to this topic and I want to show men in their early twenties that men should be able to express their feelings without being judge by other men or women. I will upload this video to Vimeo and will share it on Twitter. As a media major, this will make give me some experience on video production. I will be taking production classes in the fall of 2015 and with this video I want to demonstrate the type of video productions that I am capable of making.

These 11 things should not be consider ‘Girly’ because both men and women should be able to do them without judgment. Feelings and emotions should not have any gender. Things that we enjoy should not be judge by nobody of any gender. The word ‘Girly’ should not be seen as something negative. When we hear that word ‘Girly’, referring to men it is immediately portrayed as something negative. Patriarchy has created this negative meaning toward the word itself and many more related to women.






Hooks, Bell. The Will to Change: Masculinity, and Love.  Washington Square Press. 2004

Final Project: It's Okay, Girls.

For the final project, I will create an Instagram account based on women lives. The whole purpose of this account is to make girls feel better about themselves without having to shave, wax, go on a diet or any other change to make others happy.  I created an account @ItsOkayGirls on Instagram, each month will have different topic. For Example, the topic of May will be related to hair removal. It will be a movement that trend to be regram and repost in social media, which telling people it is okay to be who they are. The content will be recommended links to watch or pictures related to the struggle of every women.  Also, from an inspiration of Human in New York, I decided to go on the street to ask guys' and girls' opinions on hair removal, and post them on the instagram. Hopefully their stories and thoughts can inspire the women out there, this will be the whole purpose of the project. 

My point and purpose are not to promote that women still needs men’s approval of doing things or not doing things. I realized women are easier to get involved in the feminist movement than men, so this is just the very first step for getting men involve into the movement. Many women still criticize themselves with the male gaze, so if the male can make the first move then it is worth a try. Also, women tend to judge other women and follow their women role model, so it is also good for women to share the hashtag and pass along with it. In order to make this trend working, I hope the video get reposted by someone influential or popular. Hope the beginning of this Instagram account can raise the awareness to the world and reduce some of the pain for women.





Topic of the Month: Hair Removal.

Women used to concern about how they look in front of others, either to men or another women. We women always try hard to make other satisfied, in order to feel satisfied by others’ approval, for example, hair removal. I start shaving when I was in junior high school, the reason I began to shave is because somehow people think it is better when it is cleaner. The myth we get from media tend to tell us that being clean and sexy is good and fashionable, so we do it no matter what, just to fit in the society’s expectation standard. After years of shaving, I did my first bikini wax when I was 20 years old, after that I start to make an appointment to regulate the waxing session in a deeper way--- Brazilian wax. I did it because I want to look cleaner when wearing a bikini. I did it because I think my boyfriend might like it and love me more, and I did it because I want to feel better than other girls that remain hairy. Overall, I just feel that I have a higher and better sense of lifestyle than others, it is superficial and vanity.
Picture from Statistic Brain


 After years of having these purposes to get the wax, I finally realized it is all not worth it. I did couple research on women waxing. Usually, people who promote the service are the sellers, not the doctors. Lots of salon website have a FAQ page, which inform and educate the consumer to believe that no hair is GOOD, in order to get you into the salon and feel bad about your natural look. However, base on my experiences, waxing is painful, and causes ingrown hair, and your boyfriend do not really care if they love you a person. Hair is there for a reason.

Here is an example of the post I made.







Below is a video from Buzzfeed of  Men Get Bikini Waxes For The First Time.



Link to the Instagram Account



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